Here's a great post at Cait London's site about writer's fears. I need to get off the couch and get that "dreck-ball" rolling. I think that's my greatest fear: the dreck.
But I think what the author of "Why do we still fall for Mr Darcy?" missed (and maybe what some of the women interviewed did too) is that there's a difference between the guy we drool over in books and movies, and the guy we really want to spend our lives with.